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Katie Maloney he admitted that filming was challenging Vanderpump Rules with Lisa Vanderpump on Wednesday’s episode of her shared podcast with Dane Catan.
At the same time announcing Kristen Doute43, and Lala Kent36, as “difficult rivals,” Katie, 40, said why it was “hard” to film scenes with her former boss in the restaurant SUR, Lisa, 66, and looked back on her relationship with a hidden narcissist – while hinting at the identity of the mystery man.
“It was really hard to film with Lisa,” Katie said in the October 28 episode Disrespectfullyvia Vanderpod Recaps on Instagram.
“It was a challenge because, for one thing, for a long time she really bothered me, and then other times it’s like we have to tell her what’s been going on in our lives, and she’d just be like, ‘Why are you telling me this?’ Then all of a sudden you feel like you’re crazy because you’re like, ‘Why am I telling you this?’ So I mean, [not for] reasons that people would accept, but I remember [being] like, ‘Oh man, I got to film with Lisa,'” she continued. “It was tough. He didn’t come like [naturally].”
According to Katie, she was “so comfortable” with everyone else because she was “spending so much time with her [them].”
Although Katie would not want to film with any of her exes Pump regulations today, she said the only other people she sometimes had trouble with were Kristen and Lala.
“It was always challenging sometimes filming with, like, Kristen or Lala, when you don’t get along with them because they’re tough competitors. You know what I mean? Like, they don’t let things go,” she explained.
Moving on to her relationship with an undercover reporter, Katie, who was previously married Tom Schwartz44, although she does not like to prove anyone, it was clear that they had all the characteristics of a hidden narcissist.
“A covert narcissist hides classic narcissistic traits, such as a deep need for respect, a lack of empathy, and a sense of entitlement behind a quiet, shy or self-possessed exterior. They are not braggy. They are not like, vain, because everyone always associates narcissism with someone who is similar, self-respecting and self-contained. They completely show and all the other characteristics are they have, like, mental and emotional abuse and those kinds of things,” Katie explained.
Katie then said that covert narcissists have a persistent victim mentality, passive-aggressive behavior, hypersensitivity to criticism, and covert superiority.
During her time with this person, Katie said that she felt she had been let down.
“My feelings were like, ‘That’s not important. Why are you focusing on that?’ ‘I’m focusing on it because I feel strongly about it.’ Or they would cheat on me and suddenly, like, I deserved it. Like, ‘Well, it’s because we were in a tough spot or because you were the way you were, acting a certain way,'” she recalled.
Although Katie knew something was “very wrong, very wrong” in the relationship, she admitted it was “normal”.
“I loved them. And they loved me … So I mean, love is a hell of a drug. I was just like, ‘Well, maybe I’m the problem. I know I can be a little dramatic and those kinds of things. So maybe they’re right.’ They were very confident,” she said.
Katie and Tom were together for 12 years, and Katie has been with a musician Nick Martin43, for two years. After her divorce, Katie admitted that she did not feel emotionally supported by Tom, who admitted that he had cheated on her several times.
