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Alanis Morissette is the Grammy-winning singer behind hits like “You Oughta Know” and “Thank You,” but these days her personal life is making just as much noise. The music icon recently came out as pansexual, and is happily married to a fellow musician Soulley for more than 15 years. Before settling down, she had high-profile romances with some major A-list stars!
Keep reading for everything you need to know about Alanis’ love life.
Alanis and Souleye’s wedding
Alanis has been married to Souleye, born Mario Treadway, since 2010. The couple tied the knot in an intimate ceremony at the singer’s home in Los Angeles on May 22 of that year, as reported by Today. Souleye is a rapper and musician, and the couple have three children, Ever, Onyx and Winter.
The singer made headlines again in November 2026 when she came out as pansexual during an appearance on the “Handsome” podcast. The publication quickly became one of the most talked about moments of the year.
“I’m pansexual, so, yes,” Alanis said.
Her candid confession arrived at a busy time for the star, who released her holiday album Good weather for an unprotected concept in November 2026. She has been married to Souleye all year, and over the years has spoken warmly about their growing relationship.
“I think it gets juicy because we’re going on the third phase of helping each other heal and grow,” she said. Every week.
Her romance with Ryan Reynolds
Long before Souleye, Alanis had a date Ryan Reynolds from 2002 to 2007. The two became engaged in 2004, although they eventually called it quits and parted ways as friends. Their high-profile romance was in the public eye at the height of her fame. Reynolds went on to marry Blake Livelywith whom he has three children.
Alanis has said that the breakup inspired her song “Torch,” which appeared on her 2008 album The Tastes of the People.
Alanis & ‘Full House’ Alum Dave Coulier
Earlier in her career, Alanis dated Full House alum Dave Coulierwith the couple together from 1992 to 1994, just before Small Jagged Pill made her a global star. The 1995 album went on to sell over 33 million copies worldwide. The actor is best known for playing the adorable Joey Gladstone on the hit sitcom. For years, fans have speculated that her breakup anthem “You Oughta Know” was written about the comedian.
Coulier himself has said that he thinks the song may be about him, although Alanis has never confirmed who inspired it.